In the corporate world, we go “all in” on many things. Some of them are prosperous ventures, some are not. We learn to adjust. As leaders, we also know that our decisions impact others Every. Single. Time. This is our reality and none of us take it lightly.
Which is why I spent over six months preparing others for my departure from one of the largest Healthcare organizations in the world. Every decision I made included someone who could “take the reins” and confidently lead going forward.
During my “goodbye meeting,” I “flipped the script” and shared quotes and images for each one of my team members and talked about how much I learned from them and what they meant to me. I could have done that for every person I met there beyond my team – they left a mark on me for sure.
I also personally reflected on my goals:
In less than 5 years, my team introduced Organization Design & Development to over 1,000 Human Capital Professionals. We created toolkits for Change Leadership, Organization Design, Human Centered Design, New Leader Acceleration, Team Development, Strategy & Planning, and more. We built strong relationships with our “People Team” partners and were the “guides on the side” for many large initiatives. I also led initiatives where I pulled teams together across the 3 separate organizations to identify our collective goals and achieve them together.
We developed new Coaching Programs (Just in Time and Leadership Coaching) that now have hundreds of coaches working across the organization to support others. I became a coach of coaches, which is my favorite role of all time.
So why did I leave all of this?
Because I went ALL IN on ME. I wanted to step off of the hamster wheel and spend the rest of my career doing something that makes my heart swell.
I went ALL IN on my girls who are current and future leaders (age 11 and 12) and are creative and awesome and really great humans. I want to be with them before they head off to the world of adventures. I want to know them, and I want them to know me, too.
I went ALL IN on my husband who loves his job building websites for Ironistic AND coaches our daughter’s basketball team AND is President of the Maple Gove Community Organization (our small town of 72,000+ residents). He also might be a Pickleball or Volleyball mascot someday:).
I went ALL IN on my team at Vreeman Consulting. At this point in my life, I don’t care about making money (that’s the sticking point to leaving a job, right?!?). I care most about helping to build the workforce of the future that will appeal to future generations. I talked to every one of my VC team members over the past week, and I am ALL IN on supporting them, helping them to achieve their goals, and loving them as they raise families in different stages of life as parents, grandparents, etc. This team is a collection of my favorite people on earth.
I went ALL IN on US, all of us.